What do you think are the four most important part in parenting?

To be more specific, what do you think are the four most important part in parenting a toddler? I know the most important thing is - love but other than this. For example, is Nutrition important? What else? Thanks for your help!
xx. [B]wendii[E]

Middle of the road parenting books please:)?

I am looking for parenting books. I have a 6 month old son. I don’t want a millitant approach but I also don’t want the “pick him up everytime he cries” approach either. I am looking to get ideas on typical behavior such as weaning from the pacifier, nutrition: introducing solids, [...]